Thursday, January 31, 2013


Devina's Domme of the Day Jan 31

"You like it now, but you're going to love it later.."

Devina's TGirl of the Day Jan 31

Males Who Wear Stilettos - And the Women Who Love Them

 All around us, every single day, progressive understanding is happening. Yet another example is this recent feature on the Women's Entertainment Network entitled "Married to Cross-dressers: Men Who Wear Stilettos - And the Women Who Love Them", which was a candid and openly supportive glimpse into the lives of several married couples. Here is the write up about the episode.


You love your husband, you adore your boyfriend– so you let him slide when he leaves the toilet seat up, forgets your birthday, or find out he's seen Star Wars 212 times. But what if he asked to borrow your favorite blouse, and maybe some of that new violet eyeshadow. Would you, could you, deal?

Lots of women do.

There are thousands of heterosexual men - married or in committed relationships -- who routinely dress in women's clothing. It's estimated that at least 1% of the male population "cross-dresses." But even in this new millennium of nipple rings and ringtones, the idea of a heterosexual man wanting to dress in heels is still perceived as weird, even threatening. Cross-dressing is a subject that's been widely misunderstood, and it's just as confusing for the cross-dressers themselves - and the women who love them.

Misconceptions are rampant. For example, most people associate cross-dressing with effeminacy or homosexuality. But Dr. William Stayton, Head of the University of Pennsylvania's Department of Human Sexuality explains that most cross-dressers are "very definitely heterosexual. In fact one of the most difficult areas for cross-dressers is how to deal with the women with whom they wanted to be involved.

"The truth is that, rather than shying away from women, most cross-dressers are as interested in marriage or being in a relationship as any man. "There is even some advantage to being a heterosexual cross-dresser," says Dr. Stayton. "When dressed they often become more sensitive and understanding to the women in their lives. Their wives tend to find them delightful and often it can become a real enhancement to marital relations." However that "enhancement" can only come if the woman feels comfortable with her husband's occasional dressing.

In "SECRET LIVES OF WOMEN: WOMEN WHO MARRY CROSS DRESSERS," we get to know women who share their lives with transvestites. Women like Peggy Rudd, a 60-something grandmother who remembers the day her husband delivered a 42-page letter to her office one month after marrying "her soulmate." Her new husband's letter detailed the secret he couldn't bring himself to explain face-to-face. Seems her soulmate liked to wear ladies' clothes.

Carreanne has also found that life with a cross-dresser has its challenges. Her boyfriend Joe uses his female persona, "Tori Lynn," most of the time, and it's raised a few hackles in the couple's small Midwestern town. "It's hard to get out of the house as Tori Lynn," she explains, "We've had some negative reaction at local bars."

But some women publicly embrace the lifestyle. Kelly, a mother and cosmetologist, owns a popular cross-dressing boutique. The store offers wigs, clothes, prosthetics, undergarments -- and even rents lockers so men can secretly stash their female garb in a safe place. Perhaps most importantly, Kelly empathizes with her cross-dressing clientele since Kelly's husband, Jerry, is occasionally "Jeri." Kelly, Jerry and "Jeri" all live and work happily together with Kelly fully supporting her husband's love of female garb.

In fact, about a year ago she tossed all of Jerry's boxers so even when he's not in full-on Jeri drag, Jerry can still wear panties every day. 

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Blurring The Lines

There comes a time in all sissy gurl's lives when they make the conscious decision to intrude upon their vanilla day to day life and allow themselves the freedom to express their femininity. For some gurls it's the day they throw away all their male underwear and wear panties 24-7, others will commit themselves to be plucked and shaved at all times, and others take even bolder steps to reveal their gurly selves to the world for all to see.

For Devina, the transition to female underwear was far easier than first imagined and with proper choices, one could even find proper panties to pass for simple briefs when needed, ie doctor's appointments, gyms etc..

Wearing panties and stocking to work underneath the drab attire that the EME required brought it's own set of unique thrills. Each day Devina would take a moment to scan her office to wonder who was wearing sexier underwear that day, her of the Women in the office! Most times, Devina was assured that she indeed had on the sexiest underwear that day, and with her collection bursting to close to 80 pairs, she could plan her weekly panty plan well in advance.

Unfortunately in Devina's office, there was a definite lack of Women to compare to, let alone any in positions of Authority and Power. Devina would sometimes daydream about what it would be like to have a Female boss where slowly Devina could grow a little more daring by letting her inner Femme' self being hidden by the vanilla garb, slip through on occasion to see if a Female boss would notice and capitalize upon. A slight peek of a hot pink pair of panties shown when reaching for something on a book shelf, or a drop of perfume worn on a wrist, that would only be picked up by a Female nose. Sadly none of those opportunities really existed, but it never stopped one from dreaming

Unfortunately the career that paid the bills, that allowed Devina the freedom to build her Female life didn't really provide the opportunity to find an opportunity where a Female dominance in the workplace was prevalent. Devina, however was still blessed to have a growing circle of Girlfriends of Dominant Mistresses, and at least she could maintain her daily Female influence that way.

Panties and stockings to work, nighties and silk pj's to bed at night, and a constant Dominant Female influence reinforcing Devina's growing inner Femme' spirit continued to be a perfect recipe for what Devina needed to grow....

Devina's Domme of the Day Jan 27

Devina's TGirl of the Day Jan 27